ADHD Daddy

I actually messaged ADHD Daddy on the free internet dating site before I met Dr. TGIASE. He responded but the message trail died. After I got back to dating, ADHD Daddy messaged me. We talked on the phone first, and he's a very smart guy, successful, but has young kids and recently divorced. Conversation over the phone with him was very satisfactory. Intellectually stimulating.

I met him for cocktail first. He's a good looking man. All the men I've dated recently are kind of short, short as in barely my height when I wear completely flat shoes. Well, beggars can't be choosers. If there's one thing I can live without is the height. That is, as long as they don't make me hug them like a baby. Oh believe me, that happened, on a second date. Yuck.

After cocktail we went for dinner. ADHD Daddy reminds me so much of Dr. TGIASE. He's very forward, not shy of telling me how he feels. Even the words he used: I just feel so comfortable around you; you are so in touch with your senses; you strike me as [compliment]. He even kissed me like Dr. TGIASE did. I somehow felt that Dr. TGIASE took my ADHD virginity. I can clearly see the ADHD signs from ADHD Daddy, and the whole time I just kept thinking about Dr. TGIASE. I felt nothing for ADHD Daddy. Here is a nice successful guy who's totally into me, albeit for his own dopamine level rather than for who I really am, I just want to go home and fantasize about Dr. TGIASE. Maybe I am not ready to date yet.

As predicted, ADHD Daddy wanted to see me as much as he can, and as soon as he can. Not feeling it makes it easier to tell him no. I am not falling for that again, not to mention that his divorce is still fairly recent. Let's keep it slow, emotionally anyway.

What I learned: How to make money as a college counselor.